viernes, 6 de mayo de 2011

Try

There are several points in everyone's life where we realize there is something that makes us a good person. I, for one, don't like to think about it; it happens, yes, but it's usually at the expense of someone, because we usually need a point of reference too. And I don't like (and I'm sure most of you don't either) to feel better than someone else.

I was having a discussion with someone because he insulted both someone's opinion and someone else's art. I didn't like it either, actually. But I didn't like the fact he had to insult it either. I got defensive but loose: I prefer sadness over anger, and when you're arguing with a loose ambition, you're not going anywhere if your partner is of the agressive kind. I just really wanted to make a point. Of course then, he next insulted me, calling me a 13 year old, attacking me with sarcasm and whatnot. This is the point where I become depressed, and where I notice I'm a better person. Which I already stated, I don't like to think about.

Since we're chidren, we're taught to not speak if we don't have anything good to say. I've always been very attached to this. There are people, however, who believe we have all the right to express our opinions, and just because we don't like somethiing doesn't mean we don't have the right to express it. That is, in fact, correct. There's no one with the right to keep our mouths shut if we want to say something. But these people are so full of themselves that they're overcarried by logic and missing common sense.

You know... people have these things called "feelings". When you're mean to them, you hurt those feelings. And that's bad. Very bad. And unnecesary. You don't get anything good out of that either. So why do it? If you're so urged to express your opinion, at least do it with respect and kindness. In a rougher note: people don't give a fuck about your opinion if it's not a positive one. In such a case, if people never got opinions over their screw ups, they would simply not get any opinion. And that would mean they're doing something wrong, so neither that's an excuse to speak shit about people.

This is... probably what I hate the most about people. People who think they're mean by nature, people who think they can't help it, who think it's a good thing, who are even proud of it. Please.. I beg you, if you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything... and if you must, please, be kind and respectful. Nobody wants to get hurt. Remember not everyone likes to argue with agression, and those who do aren't getting anything good of it. Our words hold incredible power, and are, in most cases, much more important than actions...

Next is a picture of a heart-shaped clef.


Things like this rarely happen to me. I think there is something that keeps even strangers from trying to harm you... I just don't know what it is. Bye.

I'm sad, but fine too.

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